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A Cure For Love

Ibn al-Qayyim (rahimahullāh) stated:

This is a disease of the heart that differs from every other disease in its nature, its causes, and its remedy. Once it enters the heart it dominates it. Even the doctors (i.e. therapists) are unable to provide a medicine for it. But the medication for this disease lies in knowing firstly that what you have been tested with conflicts with tawhīd.

Thus one should occupy himself with physical and spiritual acts of worship, which in turn would preoccupy him from constantly thinking about that woman. Make lots of du‘ā to Allah (The Most Perfect) that He turns your heart away from her and He returns it back to Him. Continue reading →

Menses Appeared Right After Breaking The Fast – Fast Valid?

Question posed to Shaykh Abdullāh Ibn Muhammad Ibn ‘Abdilazīz Ibn Humayd:

The monthly cycle appeared directly after breaking the fast before performing the Maghrib Prayer. Is my fast sound?

Answer:

Yes it is sound. As long as the menses did not come to you until after the setting of the sun, there is no making up of the fast upon you. This day (of fasting) is sound. As for the case if the menses came to you before the Adhaan, meaning by that, before the setting of the sun, the fast for that day has become invalid and it is a must that you make it up. As for the case when the menses has come to you after the setting of the sun and after you have broken your fast, the fast for this day is sound and it is not upon you to make it up, inshā-Allâh. Continue reading →

نصيحة للنساء اللاتي ينشغلن بسبب وسائل التواصل الاجتماعي

للشَّــيخُ الوالــد العلّامــة عُــبيد الجَــابِري حَــفظهُ الله

:السُّـــــــؤَالُ

أحسن الله إليكم شيخنا، سؤال من النساء تقول: نريد نصيحة للنساء لمن اشتغلت عن زوجها وأصبحت تنشغل بالفيس بوك والواتس أب وغيرها من وسائل التواصل الاجتماعي

:الجَــــــوَابُ

هذا خيانة، تلاعب بحقوق الزوج، والمفترض في المسلمة أن تحفظ مال زوجها وولده، تُعينه على التربية وتشغل وقتها في بيتها بما يعود عليها بالمنفعة؛ من تلاوة القرآن، وقراءة ما تَيَسَّر من الكتب، وصلاة النافلة إن كانت قادرة على الصلاة، ولا تنشغل عن حقوق زوجها؛ هذا جَوْرٌ وظلم إذا أدَّى هذا الأمر إلى أنها تُؤخِّر مصالح لزوجها أو تُعَطِّلها هذا ظلم وجَوْر، وهو خلاف قوله – صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ – وسيأتي – إن شاء الله- في كتاب الإمارة هذا Continue reading →